It sounds like maybe you’re a little unhappy with your business and that’s why you don’t wanna talk about it.

Being “fine” with some things is fine, sometimes, but I personally couldn’t consider being around someone long term who is “fine” but clearly discontent with some aspect of their life but doesn’t have any motivation or plans to change it.

Settling for “fine” in life is a choice, I’m not going to fault you for it but I don’t think “fine” is sufficient. I think that is what you are seeing in these men you’ve dated. But don’t make the mistake of thinking it’s a gender thing. Some people are fine with “fine” but a lot of people aren’t.