I’m sorry but I think you entirely miss the point of style. What a person chooses to wear by definition reflects on them as an individual not the observer. If a woman or anyone wants to flaunt convention or norms, to be provocative or appear sexy they are doing so knowing full well what they are doing. When someone makes the argument that others shouldn’t “judge” that individual based on what they wear that person is robbing the individual of personal agency. This is becoming a sad epidemic where people want to have the appearance of being non conforming individuals without the effort. As if every action a person takes needs to be inside of an insulated safe place free of criticism. But you see that is the exact opposite of being an independent individual. Individual expression isn’t afraid of the consequences of that expression, in fact that is it’s driving force.