I find this odd because if I find out a woman has just been divorced in the last year I gtfo. People need time to work on themselves and get their shit together. No one should have to deal with all that drama. I don’t need to know anything about your ex and I really don’t need to talk about mine. If we want to share that some day, great but when people talking about their ex in any more than a passing mention before you even really know them, that is a huge red flag.