I don’t know this all sounds an awful lot like the same old tired old toxic behavior touted by books like “the game” It’s all crap advice and that’s exactly the kind of woman this will attract. If you want a quality woman throw all “advice” including this in the garbage. Instead treat her like a person. Be honest and open about your attraction and intent but give herself and yourself space to be individuals. It’s really simple, after you put your duck away, ask yourself how would you want to be treated if you were her.